THE WEEKLY NOTES #44 I’M FEELING BETTER NOW

 

Here a snap of the most delicious breakfast we enjoyed at Crux + Co a few weeks ago – highly recommend!

 

If you’ve been following me on Twitter mainly you’ll probably be aware that I’ve had a tough month. We finally hit that ‘oh fuck our wedding is pretty soon’ and I’ve been in overdrive finalising shit we didn’t think would take very long but ended up taking all the time in the world. Throw that in with an already busy month due to work and functions plus some super fun family dramas it’s been a tough month. The wedding has never stressed me out and I’ve enjoyed planning it immensely but it’s been crazy trying to fit everything in.

 

The past two weeks in particular you’ve probably noticed that I’ve stepped back from everything and that’s because we had a not very nice experience with our family regarding kids being at our wedding. I won’t go into the ins and outs but in all honesty it has been so fucking tough on both Isaac and I. It’s mainly been disappointment over things that were said, how we were treated and expecting more from people. I feel really weird about the whole experience (FYI kids are now coming to the wedding) and it’s definitely left me on another planet faraway with my feelings. I asked Isaac today if he thinks I’m an overwhelming personality and he said ‘you are just honest’. I had to smile at that. I do think sometimes my honesty is mistaken for me being a bitch or not approachable – I’m not a shit person I am neither of things but I don’t lying about how I really feel. I find it strange when things get swept under the rug because I wear my heart on my sleeve and rather tackle things head on. We’ve been fairly upset over the whole thing so it has taken some time to shake it off.

 

I’m feeling a little bit better now. We’ve been working super to keep Instagram still up and running, we are trying to move past all the stupid family drama and we’re slowly getting our shit together for the wedding. I’ve already written two more blog posts for next week but from then on I’m not sure if I’ll be putting anything new up on the blog. Make sure to follow me on Twitter and Instagram because I’ll be staying active over there throughout the wedding month but as we’ve chatted about before here – there is no pressure for me to continue writing until I get back from our honeymoon.

 


Have you guys ever had wedding related family drama?


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5 Comments

  1. 1

    It amazes me how often this happens in the lead up to a wedding. How people don’t understand that it is ultimately the couples decision on what they would like for their wedding is beyond me. I hope everything else runs smoothly in the lead up. On the day the drama will be a distant memory.

    • 2

      It’s sad it happens so often isn’t it? I do understand where these people were coming from but it was just the way that it all played out that really upset us. I know we are going to have an epic day so whatever :)

  2. 3

    The way I’ve always thought of it was: your wedding, your rules… & everyone should respect that! Sad they caused so much unnecessary drama for you :( xx

  3. 4

    Weddings really do bring out the worst in people. We had family drama before and after our engagement party. And we’re doing the no kids at the wedding, so I’ll let you know how that goes down…

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